So my ex husband is an idiot
The men I met through tinder are also idiots
The guy i’m friends with is also so emotionally and sexually immature
The avoidant was emotionally immature but sexually okay
I need an emotionally and sexually mature man
A sexy man
Who’s not afraid of showing his feelings and has boundaries
And respects boundaries
His love is stable
He’s not dumb emotionally
All of these men are emotionally dumb (or sometimes dumb in real life) they act like children who have no idea what relationships or love are
I was emotionally immature too, and I’m still working on that
I’m still trying to let go of my inner child tantrums and behaviors
So many people are stuck in this phase!
Anyways my focus should be me 🙂
A sexy mature emotionally stable man
Who doesn’t waste his time with emotionally immature people
Who has boundaries and respects them and respects other people’s boundaries
Who is confident in himself but not cocky and definitely not insecure
A secure man
Who doesn’t care about perfection and appearances and shallow things
He can care about his health and looks but they’re not the only thing in life and he doesnt need to try too hard
Doesnt have fantasies of the perfect woman
Doesn’t only think with his penis
Has a big heart and a big mind
Wise, mature, deep
Loving, caring, gentle, stable
I hope i’ll become the stable wise mature woman I thrive to be
I feel I’m on the way! 🙂
Jude 